A REFLECTION FROM REV SUE SHERIFF

  

I was walking through a fairly busy Weymouth town centre when I heard a shrill chirruping. It was so loud I thought it must be a child with one of those whistles that imitates birds. I looked but I couldn’t spot the culprit – until I noticed a tiny bird ‘bouncing’ down the street, weaving in and out of the shoppers.
I couldn’t believe that such a loud sound was coming from something so small. I opened the Merlin App on my phone, which identifies birds by their call. It suggested the call was that of a White Wagtail. Apparently they’ve adapted well to urban areas and likes particular to nest in crevices in stone walls and similar human-made structures and forage in paved areas.
It was practically sprinting down the shopping precinct and I had to pretty much jog to keep up.
I wanted a photo as it seemed so out of place but all I could get was a shot of it’s back. Every time I got ahead it would turn around and teasingly show me it’s tail.
Later at home, I looked on the internet and realised I needed the back view was exactly what I needed. It wasn’t a White Wagtail it was a far more common Piebald Wagtail, distinguishable by it’s ‘dark smokey’ back and known for dashing about, wagging it’s tail as it goes.
Common or rare it felt good to pause and share a moment with this inquisitive chap – one of God’s incredible creatures.

Just the day before my mum had shared the poem ‘Leisure’ by WH Davies …

What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.

No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.

No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.

No time to turn at Beauty’s glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.

No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.


A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

An analysis of the poem suggests that Davies was pointing out that a life burdened by constant worry and busyness is a poor one if you don’t take time to appreciate the beauty of nature and simple moments. The poem asks what the point of life is if we are too preoccupied with our cares to “stand and stare” at nature’s wonders, like watching squirrels or streams full of sunlight (or Piebald Wagtails in a town centre). It is a plea to slow down and enjoy the world around us, finding richness in simple observations rather than endless striving.
A lesson I seem to keep having to relearn but I am determined to do better!

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I know it’s a bit of a leap in my thinking, but I read an article the other day about how the best way to honour those who made the ultimate sacrifice and gave their life in the pursuit of peace is to stop for two minutes and remember them.

Can I take this opportunity to remind you that that is exactly what we’ll be doing next Sunday, 9 November, in our Remembrance Service at St Oswald’s Church. The service will start slightly later than usual, at 10.30am, so we can join people across the UK in observing the two-minute silence at 11am.
 

Sue Sheriff – Vicar of St Oswald’s

 t. 01904 633261 / m. 07521 778195
e. vicar@stoswalds.church
The Vicarage, 1 Fulford Park, YO10 4QE
(not available on a Friday)
 

WHAT’S HAPPENING AT ST OSWALD’S
Act justly, love mercy, walk humbly with God

+ Our regular Sunday and Wednesday 10am services take place in church
+ Sunday 10am services are usually livestreamed
YouTube (also available as catch-up afterards):
http://bit.ly/Stoswaldsyoutube (click on ‘Live’)
+ Large-print hymn books are available – just ask one of the sidespeople when you go into church
+ Children’s area is on the left hand side of church
+ Toilets in the church hall round the back of the church including accessible toilet
+ Fair Trade Stall in the church hall usually on the 4th Sunday in the month
 

SUNDAY 2 NOVEMBER

10AM HOLY COMMUNION

Children’s Groups:
Pebbles for children age 2-6
Explorers for children age 7-12+
Everyone welcome!

Service Sheet: click here
Readings: 2 Thessalonians 1: 1-4 & 11-12; Luke 19: 1-10
Music words: click here
 
After the service, come to the church hall
for refreshments – everyone is welcome!



 

REMINDER
DISASTER EMERGENCY COMMITTEE APPEAL

Conflict in the Middle East has devastated lives.
The DEC is an umbrella group of UK charities which are responding in Gaza, Lebanon, the West Bank and Syria providing lifesaving food, water, shelter and medicine. Your support will make a difference. The ceasefire agreement in Gaza brings hope and relief. DEC charities are now scaling up their work but urgently need more funds. Your support can save lives.
Please donate by leaving a donation in the Disaster Emergency Committee DEC plate at the back of church (your last opportunity to donate in this way)Donations can also be made by phone (0330 123 0555) or online.
 

MONDAY 3 NOVEMBER

10AM MORNING PRAYER IN CHURCH

1.30PM TABLE TENNIS IN THE CHURCH HALL
including a refreshments break!
Come along and give it a try – everyone welcome!
Contact: Keith Hood



TUESDAY 4 NOVEMBER
10AM-12NOON IN THE CHURCH HALL
COMMUNITY CAFE 
& BABY CAFE
All babies & parents very welome! No specific activities planned … just a time to relax together

 
WEDNESDAY 5 NOVEMBER
10AM HOLY COMMUNION IN CHURCH
(Book of Common Prayer)


 10AM-12NOON IN THE CHURCH HALL
COMMUNITY CAFE


7.30PM AT 1 FULFORD PARK
START! Week 2
Discover Christianity in six small-group sessions meeting weekly
A warm welcome to everyone!

Contact Rev Sue or Martin Tuvey-Smith



THURSDAY 6 NOVEMBER
9.30-11.30AM IN THE CHURCH HALL
ST OSWALD’S TOTS
 
SUNDAY 9 NOVEMBER
 

Support the Poppy Appeal – to donate click HERE
 


SATURDAY 8 NOVEMBER FROM 2PM
VOLUNTEERS NEEDED PLEASE!

LEAF CLEARANCE PARTY – Please come and join a leaf clearance party to clear particularly the front grassed areas and the compacted leaves in the Church Car Park, which can become treacherous when wet (for both pedestrians and drivers).
LIGHT BULB REPLACEMENT TEAM – There are around 8 blown light bulbs inside church – and now the external lights are necessary on an evening, probably a couple of external bulbs which need checking and/or changing.
If you can help, please do contact Bryan Milner to let him know? Bryan will welcome all offers (even possibly for different day/time if more convenient). Bryan Milner, t. 01904 652772
 
FAMILY QUIZ NIGHT 25 OCTOBER
 
A massive thank you to all our church and community family for joining us for a fun filled evening of Pizza, Quiz and Games. We had a fantastic response from our community with 70 people coming along.  We had many people asking when the next one is, to which all I could say is watch this space. 
To those who prayed for the event, thank you. Please know how appreciated your prayers are. 
Martin Tuvey-Smith

ST OSWALD’S CHURCH HOUSE GROUPS
Exploring faith with bible study in fellowship with friends
If you would like to know more about joining a group, do have a chat with Rev Sue.

NEW GROUP!
START! Second meeting Wednesday 5 November at 7.30pm (1 Fulford Park) contact Rev Sue or Martin Tuvey-Smith
Discover Christianity in six small-group sessions meeting weekly. A warm welcome to everyone!

Monday 3 November at 7pm (Redman Close Group weekly) contact Jackie Tuvey-Smith [email protected]
Wednesday 12 November at 11.15am (Sir John J. Hunt Meeting Room Group fortnightly) contact Lesley Milner t.01904 652782
Thursday 6 November at 7.30pm (Heslington Lane group fortnightly) contact Caroline Moore, e. [email protected]
 
REMINDER
ST OSWALD’S CHURCH PRAYER CHAIN
ST OSWALD’S CHURCH WHATSAPP GROUP
If you would like to join either of these, please contact Pippa Ensor,
e. [email protected], m. 07949 844395

CHURCH SERVICES RADIO/ONLINE
SUNDAYS
> 8.10AM – BBC RADIO 4 SUNDAY WORSHIP
Rev Kate Bottley explores ‘Sheela Na Gigs’ and female spirituality after celebrating her 50th birthday this year.
> ONLINE SUNDAY SERVICE
WEEKDAYS
> 10.45AM – BBC RADIO 4EXTRA DAILY SERVICE

LOCAL NEWS, SUPPORT & HELP ETC


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Join in a diocesan cycle of prayer our communities, our church and our world. There is always somewhere, something or someone we can pray for. The Diocesan Prayer Diary may help guide you and your church in praying for our diocese – to read the latest diary, click HERE








OCTOBER NEWSLETTER
As we move into November, St Bede’s continues to offer a range of events, both in person and online. See below for some of the upcoming events and click HERE
A Spotlight on Bible Women, Saturday 1 November 10am-4pm
Wellbeing Sessions, Thursday 6 November, 4 December 10.30pm-12.30pm
Wondering Our Way into the Future, Saturday 8 November 10am – 3.30pm
Christmas Wreath Making, Friday 28 November 1.30pm-3.30pm
and plenty more….!


REMINDER

Tuesday 11 November – Saturday 15 November 7.30pm
Theatre@41, 41 Monkgate, York YO31 7PB
The arrival of a new vicar in Dibley shakes up the parish council of the sleepy English village. Is Dibley and its inhabitants ready for the wind of change that is Geraldine?   All of your favourite characters from the hugely popular TV series will be on stage to remind you just how much you all laughed
This promises to be a hilarious night out!


REMINDER
WOMEN’S CONFERENCE
29 November: 9am-2.30pm
De Grey Rooms, York

The Belfrey are holding a Women’s Conference where they will be welcoming guest speaker Ruth Perrin who will be speaking about the God-given voices of women in scripture, how they use their voice to build His Kingdom, and how we are invited to do the same.
Cost: £15 for a standard ticket or £10 for a student ticket; Refreshments: Tea & coffee will be offered throughout the day but please bring your own lunch
If you would be interested in attending this event, you can find out more information on their website and also find the link to book a ticket. Alternatively, you can also contact Anne Wooldridge who would be happy to book a ticket for you if you prefer. If you are attending this event, please could you complete this form so that we can contact you nearer the time to arrange meeting at St Thomas’ first, and then make our way to the De Grey Rooms together.
 

 HELPING LOCAL PEOPLE IN CRISIS. 

The foodbank relies on your goodwill and support.
DONATING FOOD
+There is a York Food Bank collection box at the back of Church+

Urgently needed (please): Tinned Vegetables, Tinned Fruit, Sqiasj / Long Life Fruit Juice (non-refrigerated), Instant Mash Potato / Instant Noodles, Tinned Soup, Tinned Rice Pudding or Custard, UHT Milk
We are running low of (please): Strong Carrier Bags, Pasta, Tinned Fish, Tinned Meat, Instant Coffee, Teabags, Tinned Tomatoes, Sponge Puddings (not refrigerated), Jars of Jam, Biscuits, Powdered Milk
We are funning low of non-food (please): Sanitary Pads, Shaving Foam / Razors, Deodorant, Household Cleaning Sprays, Shampoo, Shower Gel, Nappies Size 5 and 6, Baby Wipes, Baby Toiletries, Laundry Detergent
We are well stocked in (thank you!): Baked Beans, Nappies sizxe 1 and 2, Tinned Spaghetti
Unfortunately they are unable to accept (sorry): Out of Date (Past best before date) or opened items, Chilled/Frozen Products, Homemade Items (notably Jam), Baby Formula Milk, Medical Items (tablets, medicines, medical incontinence pads, Fortisip Bottles), Alcoholic Drinks
 
THERE ARE ALSO FOOD COLLECTION POINTSWaitrose (Foss Islands), Asda* (Monks Cross), Tesco* (Askham Bar), Work With York (Castlegate), and at Foodbank Warehouse (Clifton Moor)   *for items bought in store

DONATING MONEY: You can also support the Food Bank work by donating via this link here

+There is also a local Foodshare collection box in the Church Hall+

REMINDER
ST OSWALD’S CHURCH HALL RECYCLING HUB
What can you recycle there?
Cables, biscuit & tea packaging and candle waste
in the bins under the table in the hall foyer.
Clean cans, foil + tablet blister packs (all in bags)
in the Christian Aid bin on the right
Contact Pippa Ensor,
e. [email protected], m. 07949 844395
SOFT PLASTIC: We don’t recycle this but Aldi & the Co-op do!



We will be singing these on Sunday!
MP148 For all the saints
MP799 All I once held dear
MP465 Meekness and Majesty
MP506 O Lord my God